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Guest Post: Writing As Fertilizer for Memory Seeds

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Jessica Baverstock in China My previous post, “ Living to Write the Tale ,” covers the concept of using writing to shape our future. Today I’m pleased to feature a post on this topic by Jessica Baverstock, who triggered my insight on this topic. Jessica  lives in Perth, Australia, almost exactly on the opposite side of the world from me, showing how life writers are forming a globe-spanning community. I hope Jessica’s five tips will enrich your life now and in the future, giving you volumes of memorable memoir to come.   When it comes to life writing, some of us might start thinking of our lives in the past tense. We think of the things we've done, accomplished, experienced - all the adventures we've had . We may view our writing time as reminiscing over the past, plumbing the memories we've acquired over our lifetime. While it's true that the Tree of Life Writing is planted in the soil of our memories, keeping that soil fertile is an ongoing pr...

Living to Write the Tale

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A novel concept came across my radar lately in the form of a guest post request – the idea of planning to live a life worth writing about. Although I saluted the basic idea, my initial reaction was that such a post belongs in inspirational blogs, and does not fit the focus of this life writing blog. At first glance, it seems to contradict what I’ve said many times, that any life is worth writing about. I also failed to see the connection between establishing visions and goals and writing about life. The second time I received a proposal about this, something clicked. The idea of taking charge of your life, however many days or years you have left is nothing new. I recognized that people like Elizabeth Gilbert did just that in her best-selling memoir, Eat Pray Love . She planned the sort of adventures she wanted to experience and write about and negotiated a book contract before she bought her plane ticket. A few purists felt that was contrived and perhaps a tad beyond the pale for ...

Seven Tips for Relaxing into the Story

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We all know the feeling: sitting at the computer, arm wrestling words, hammering away at drafts that aren’t working, feeling stuck, threatening to throw our computers off the nearest bridge. This is the stuff of WRITER’S BLOCK. Two metaphors come to mind when I think of writer’s block. One is the legend of Michelangelo , chipping away at a block of marble, removing all the marble that isn’t part of the image he perceives to be hiding within the larger block. The other is of pregnancy. Stories are initially conceived within the womb of memory and mind. The initial draft of a story is akin to a newborn babe, requiring lots of tending and shaping before the child emerges as a self-sufficient individual. Here’s some good news. While as with chipping away marble or birthing a child, a certain amount of energy and toil is required, you can keep it to a minimum. How? RELAX INTO THE STORY . You may have heard of the concept of writing in a state of flow, where your creative powers are at peak...